Mother’s position in the light of Quran and Hadith
A mother is a wise and noble woman – who is like a goddess in the life of children – who takes all kinds of pains for her children – who strangles her desires for the sake of her children, destroys her desires. Yes, she takes out the funeral of her happiness who does not eat herself and feeds her children – but today there are young people born in the society who abuse their mother – say bad things – beat her – even she drive them away from their own homes – perhaps for these people, Allah Almighty said in the Holy Qur’an:
And don’t associate anything with your parents, be kind to your relatives, and the orphan, and the poor, and the neighbor of the relative, and the neighbor of the relative, and the neighbor of the neighbor, and the companion of the neighbor, and Ibn al-Sabeel, and what is the property of your faith.
In this verse, Allah, the Exalted, has ordered the most important duty to be kind to parents, then relatives and relatives – in the second place, the saying of the Lord is:
And the parents are kind to you, and they are great.
Be kind to your parents, don’t say bad things to them! Do not even say if – do not rebuke them, but treat them gently, speak politely and respectfully –
Dear readers! The question will arise in your mind, why did he do this? He is also a human being, but why is so much emphasis being given that you should not even call him af? When this question arises in your mind, mother’s kindness and grace will ask you whether the son has forgotten. It is I who made you drink milk from the blood of my liver – it is I who used to urinate on the bed, then I would push you to the other side, and when you would urinate on the other side, I would urinate you. She used to sleep on the spot and sewed you on her chest – son! I am the one who carried you in my belly for nine months and endured the pain of your weight.
False lovers of their mother! Look at your neck and see how much love we have for our mother in our breasts today? How many flowers have they fed in Gulshan-e-Qalb, yet how do we treat them in return for their kindness, compassion and love? Most of us disobey our parents and hurt them – trample the flowers on the lawn planted by our parents’ love, yet a mother never curses her son – even if she says something. If so, she does not say it from her heart, but she prays to the Holy Lord that, O my Lord! So grant to our soul, to our light liver, to our light a life of peace and comfort with guidance.
In the second place, there is the saying of Rabani, in which Allah, the Most High, has ordered to give thanks to parents as well:
Thank you very much.
Thank me and your parents too-
In another place, God says:
And the Lord and the parents are kind.
Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him and be kind to your parents-
On the authority of Hazrat Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him:
A man came to the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, and said: O Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, one of the most righteous people in my good company said: Your mother said: Then who said to your mother said: Then who said to your mother said: Then who said to your father.
A man came to him and said, O Messenger of God! Who deserves the most kindness among people? He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Your mother – then who?” He said your mother – then who? In the same way, three times he said mother – the fourth time he said that your father (Agreed upon).
It is worth considering here that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said that the status of the mother is three times higher than that of the father, because the mother is the only person who has paradise under her feet. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has given three times as much to his father, he abuses him and drives him out of the house by beating him.
O disobedient children! Curse be upon you for driving away the mother from her own house – in another place, the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) says:
In spite of inf, then in spite of inf, then in spite of inf.
May his soil be impure, may his soil be impure, may he be in impure soil who finds his mother in old age and does not enter Paradise – (Narrated by Muslim)
Abusive parents! Be aware that reciting the word of martyrdom will not bring you good fortune – Hazrat Abdullah bin Salam (RA) was on his deathbed, and the two scholars wanted to visit the Prophet (PBUH) for the last time. He said: O Abdullah read
Ishhod in la ilaha illallah.
But he could not read – the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) told him to recite three times in the same way, but he could not read – the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked his wife how his deeds were in the world and his What was the hobby? Answered, O Messenger of God! By God! Ever since he married me, I don’t know that after Sarkar Alaik al-Tahiya wal Sanaa, he has any prayer off – Yes, his mother is angry with him –
He called his mother – he said, O weak! If you forgive your son, then your right is my responsibility – this poor woman said, O Messenger of God! You and your Companions are witnesses that I forgave him – after that he recited the word of martyrdom from Hazrat Abdullah, and his soul also flew away as he recited it – when his funeral prayer was performed. And when they finished the burial, the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: O people! Be aware that a person who does not treat his mother well will not have the fortune of reciting the word of martyrdom while leaving the world.
Don’t we want heaven? Heaven is under mother’s feet, steps under heaven, mothers, if we want heaven, then you should serve her in the same way as mother raised you as a child –
* Karimganj Puranpur Pilibhit West Uttar Pradesh